A deeply moving, intellectually grounded, and emotionally brave work…
Grayhurst delivers a raw, searingly honest account of what it means to be raised by a narcissistic mother and the long, difficult path toward breaking free and healing. Grayhurst’s voice is both deeply personal and fiercely direct. She describes the unique cruelty of maternal narcissism: not overt violence or neglect, but a quiet, constant invalidation that seeps into a child’s core. As the book progresses, it becomes increasingly therapeutic, offering readers insight into practical healing modalities, including trauma-informed therapy, boundary setting, emotional regulation, and the decision to go “no contact.” Grayhurst’s tone remains grounded and gentle. She speaks directly to the reader, especially to women who feel unseen, misunderstood, and emotionally hollowed out by the wounds of a toxic childhood, with the intimacy of someone who’s been there. Her professional background in domestic violence law and her understanding of trauma psychology lend the book a structural and intellectual depth.
Leaning on personal reflection, trauma theory, and hard-earned wisdom, the book offers a compassionate, clear-eyed guide for daughters who know something is off—and are ready to name it, grieve it, and move forward.
Pub date August 202, 2024
ISBN 979-8336389623
Price $11.79 (USD) Paperback, $4.99 Kindle edition